Love is the purpose and point of our existence. It guides us, gives us hope, and shapes our sense of self-worth. During the Grade 11 Day of Reflection at Saint Maur, students explored this essential human need—the need for meaningful connections and love found in platonic friendship.

On this special day, students had the chance to consider the beauty and value of platonic, life-long friendships and how they cultivate those here and now. Through a series of games, discussions, and shared reflections, students examined their current relationships and learned how to grow them into sources of true support and meaning, especially as they face their final year of schooling.

One key element of the day was exploring the concept of the “5 Love Languages”—words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time, and physical touch—and how these expressions can strengthen friendships. Understanding how we give and receive love and kindness is an important step toward building a more compassionate, connected community.

One important metaphor we discussed is that all friendships should be cherished; some are beautiful but for a short time, like sakura blossoms, and some are long-lasting and enduring through our lives, like the old Japanese cedar trees. Both types of relationships were celebrated, and students were encouraged to nurture each one with thoughtfulness and gratitude.

As Grade 11 students prepare to enter their final year at Saint Maur, this reflection served as a reminder that their friendships are a vital part of their journey. These are the people who will walk beside them in times of joy and challenge, who will cheer for them at graduation, and who may remain by their side long after the school years end.

The Day of Reflection offered more than a break from the regular routine—it was a meaningful pause to consider what truly matters. In a culture that often forgets the quiet strength of friendship, our students were reminded that love, in all its forms, is what gives life its richness and depth.